"What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver



Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Book Report - Snow Flower & the Secret Fan

A couple of months ago, a series of pictures were floating around the email world which captured the essence of the ancient practice of Chinese footbinding. These images have remained with me because of the initial horror I felt at first sight.

Ah, the magic of perspective. I was inspired to read this book after viewing these images. I've learned so much from introspection and reflection the book forced evaluate of in respect to the ancient gender-based literal and subjective concepts the still hold ground today-nearly 200 years later. This book really forced me to re-evalute the MOTIVE and reason behind the strong "roles" women play as emotional keepers of the "domestic" (ie the "inner")world, versus the men's phsycially strong roles as providers/protectors and controllers of the "outter world."
I am not easily convinced or persuaded to condone stereotyping or the notion of gender-based roles, however this book really magnified the POWER women have and the IMPORTANCE every woman's unique "femaleness."

One of the strangest concepts was this practice of footbinding - in which women's mothers were responsible for soaking their daughters feet in roots, herbs, and urine then wrapping them as tightly as they can in a series of shrinking wraps until the bones softened and eventually broke, in which case the bones could literally be "folded" under the largest toe. The goal was to create a foot no larger than a thumb (look at the size of the shoe in this picture.) The smaller the foot, the more desirable the women (in fact, her foot was more "secret" and sexual than her actual private areas.) The more desirable the women, the higher the price was paid to her family for the right to marry. A woman's future was completely determined by the size and shape of her feet, insomuch her entire financial destiny and prodigy would be determined by it. The brutal beauty was each woman gladly accepted the fate of the broken and tiny feet, the years of pain and agony (which is grimly detailed in the book), because from it they had the power to completely (literally) haped their entire future. In a world of so much uncertainty and fatalistic control-based thinking, they harnessed the 1 thing they could control and used it improve their personal circumstance: their bodies.
Also, this book also examines the importance of the female's NEED to communicate as an outlet, and the significance of female friends.
All in all, the book is written well with many solid historical references and fantastic flow. This is an easy read - only 260(ish) pages, and well worth the time.
Take a weekend and read it!


Celebrity Morph by MyHeritage

MyHeritage: Celebrity Morph - Genology - Family history

Celebrity Morph by MyHeritage

MyHeritage: Celebrity Morph - Roots - Vintage photos

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

All Work No Play...

I started yet another job (this makes 3). I've been fortunate this last month to have had the opportunity to represent some Buyers with the purchase of a new home in Kaysville. So that MONSTROSITY of a process (yes, we toured over 30 homes in 2 days... everywhere from Lehi to Layton) absorbed a lot of my time this last month. I LOVE Real Estate - and it was a nice little "breather" to get back into the Sales field a little after a year+ break managing different aspects of the construction world. I was born with that "sales stuff" in me; it's just who I am- and I'll probably go back into sales when the market changes. We will be closing on their new home in 3 weeks - woo hoo!


Also, I just started a new part-time job at Lakeview Hospital working 2 nights/1 weekend day a week in the Lab as a Lab Tech. My primary responsibilities are associated with the Phlebotomy Department & Microbiology. I draw a lot of blood, process drug tests, prepare Micobiology samples, process readings, chart test results, do a lot of random stuff with the ER and am kinda the go-between for the Blood Bank, Pathology, Microbiology, and Chemistry.


My first night was last week - What an eye opener. Not having worked in the Lab for nearly 6 years, it was a challenge (to say the least!) to remember all the terminology and abriviations for processes. Everything is a code or acronym?! And, of course, the people I work with are "too busy" to explain anything well- it's just do-or-die around there, literally!


I'm still really nervous about it. I have to go back to work tonight and train with my Latina ornery co-worker, lucky me.



On a positive note: the extra cash will be great and being back in the hospital is refreshing. I love the blood and that kind of stress. I like the technical aspects of it all and having to remember all the interesting stuff I learned in all my Medical classes!


So, when I'm not at Symphony Homes, selling a house, at the hospital, or at a race, I'm at home eating, sleeping, or cleaning. Feels like life is racing at about 210 MPH. Good thing I'm an adrenaline junky and enjoy the speed!

Ask Buddha - like the Magic 8 Ball!

"Well behaved women rarely make history." - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich